Hello...
To all that I do not know personally,
Please don't get me wrong, only a "true friend" willingness need apply!
Why do I say this?
Many have experienced people that have acted like "users", instead of friends.
I may be friendly, helpful, and generous; yet it is not to be confused with stupid, or someone to "use/ walk on". For these reasons I have cut some out of my life, and feel the need to blog this subject.
MY "CONDITIONS"
1. You MUST be sincere, reasonable, and a trustworthy person with integrity. I value my true family/ friends. No fake/ phony friends or "Frien-emies" wanted here.
2. Unnecessary negatives are not welcome either, as they hinder friendships instead of helping them grow.
Constructive criticism is best.
3. There is a motto among some friends, that I appreciate and prefer myself...
Quoting the motto "No glass, No attitudes". Need I say more? (^&^)
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From an email sent to me, here are some examples of "true friend" behaviours/ thinking.
Thankz for this Raj!
Friendly Reminders/ A-Z Friendship List
(A) ccepts you as you are
(B) elieves in 'you'
(C) alls you just to say "Hi"
(D) oesn't give up on you
(E) nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)
(F) orgives your mistakes
(G) ives unconditionally
(H) elps you
(I) nvites you over
(J) ust "be" with you
(K) eeps you close at heart
(L) oves you for who you are
(M) akes a difference in your life
(N) ever Judges
(O) ffers support
(P) icks you up
(Q) uiets your fears
(R) aises your spirits
(S) ays nice things about you
(T) ells you the truth when you need to hear it
(U) nderstands you
(V) alues you
(W) alks besides you
(X) – plains things you don't understand
(Y) ells when you won't listen and
(Z) aps you back to reality
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My Add:
If only ALL "friends" were like this, our world would be so much better! Too often we forget to call, email, or communicate; to let others know we accept them, appreciate them, and love them.
= Until next time...
Take care & Safe travels!
Trish the Dish/ C.E.S. (*@^@*)
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